Do you forgive a spouse who had dating profiles and lied about it?

Just need to know and if anyone has done this did your spouse or you hook up from these dating sites??Do you forgive a spouse who had dating profiles and lied about it?
If your spouse has a dating profiles up he/she is looking to cheat. Plain and simple. If they haven't yet its because the right person or situation hasn't come around. But in time it will. Men have it harder, but if he tries long enough he will find a willing partner. This is a dangerous situation and 1000s of married people are on these sites and many are hooking up and cheating. And the wives have no clue!! If you caught him before he did anything maybe he will stop but I would be very vigilant. Those sites are addictive and people who get cuaght just get smarter. Please trust me on this one. Do you forgive a spouse who had dating profiles and lied about it?
If you plan to stay together then yes you need to forgive. If he was looking to meet these other people behind your back then the marriage has major issues %26amp; keeping it may require more help.





Yes you can meet in person from chat sites or single sites that post either online or by telephone too. Find out if he has met anyone in person and base your decision with how far that went.


Find out what he thinks is missing in your marriage that made him feel the need to check out these places.





For him to advertise his own profile is serious. I hope it works out.
God says to forgive. So yes forgive your spouse, and your spouse should ask God for forgiveness about lying, Go will forgive. We all must forgive, if we do not forgive,God will not forgive us. Being on the dating site does not mean your spouse has actually communicated yet, unless the full service is paid for. This is a good time to address your feelings, emotions and concerns to your spouse and tackle this problem now. But unless your spouse has actually committed adultery, then there is no real reason to ';get out';, this can be solved. You two can work out the situation, find out what is lacking in your relationship to cause this, or just seek marriage counseling.
Well.. Usually with the dating profiles online.. You can only ';poke'; eachother or something like that.. It usually dont let you exchange emails and such unless you pay for them.. There's no way I could forgive my spouse for doing this.. It means that they were looking for something they couldnt get at home or they are simply unhappy and looking to move on.. Thats just the way I see it.. Im sorry you have to go through this..
My spouse did it. Hurt me so bad...her relationship status was ';single.'; She did hook up with him, 2 weeks after we had a stupid fight and she accepted his proposal. I forgave her...she apologized a million times but she never came home. She told me she still loves me but still wearing his ring. It's been four months this month and I'm done. There is no way to justify doing someone like that. I had to forgive to be fogriven but it still I will never forget.
lied?? or omitted the truth?? which one?? omitted is not the same did u ever ask her if she had profiles?? and if she did and said no thats a lie. but if she had them and u never asked then thats omitting i mean i cant remember to tell my husband everything about my past some things come up as we go along. i wasnt hiding them they just never came up. but its the PAST asnd that was b 4 u leave it there and enjoy the present. as long as u didnt find out something dangerous then leave it alone and enjoy her now. good luck
hmmm... I knew a guy.


he used to work his *** off during the day. wife used to stay home, look after kids. she got a computer. she got on dating sites. she ended up sending all the husbands savings over to a guy in another country almost $10k to move over with her and marry her. course he just took the money and never showed.


dumb b**ch
No I don't forgive the lie. there is no reason for a married man to be on a dating site unless he wants to date





And I met my late husband and my current SO on dating sites.
if he lied, it would be difficult to forgive


if he took them down, i could


i would want to know why he had them, for starters
I couldn't forgive. Really, there is no innocent way to explain their way out of that. It's a dating site and they were trolling.
A liar is always a liar, it's a lifestyle.
Let me just say,,,I know FIRSTHAND about this and if someone did this to you..GET OUT NOW! There is nothing innocent or CURIOUS about this. It was done with a PURPOSE!
yeah sort of--but have some friend of yours set him up with a 'date'.


then YOU show up.



That would be the end for me. How much worse could it get than your wife advertising for guys online while you are supposed to be husband %26amp; wife???
I set up a profile just out of curiosity but I told my hubby about it. He is up to something, sorry.