Even though on occasion he will spend unauthorized money on video games. Though savings are only 1 1/2 month of bills.
Would that make the wife greedy because she is always makes the budget important and wants to save money?Would you consider a wife greedy if she didn't spend money on junk and didn't allow her spouse to buy junk to?
Are there ACTUALLY Women out there like THAT!!?? Oh MY GOD!!!Would you consider a wife greedy if she didn't spend money on junk and didn't allow her spouse to buy junk to?
I know鈥?your husband is not a big talker about important issues鈥?but money is the top issue that leads none cheating couples to get a divorce (followed closely by different sexual needs). Every individual and every couple should have financial goals and a budget. To still blindly to a budget without identified goals behind the budget is pointless.
Your goal and that of your husband do not seem to be the same. You think that you need to have a bigger safety net in savings just in case something happens to your income. You do need 6-12 months worth in a savings account and it sounds like you think that is important. Your husband does not. You are not being greedy; you just have clear goals that he does not share.
I think all relationships have this problem. From experience, i have no clue why but i could buy hair dye and beauty products, and my ex husband would say that was selfish and i would sometimes ***** about his video game thing but i was spending 10 to 15 dollars where his things came out to 60 dollars a pop and every week there would be a new damn game. This is not why we divorced lol but it was still something to think about.
No. You know that. He is lucky someone is watching the finances. If he thinks its greed. He is wrong.
My wife takes care of the bills. And I love that. ';How much can I spend honey.'; is something I am used to saying. LOL
Nope. 1.5 months is not nearly enough margin even in a good economy. And you gotta start saving for retirement sometime.
I'd consider the husband financially selfish and foolish. He is only thinking of petty things.
reading all these questions make me think that when i marry my bf we are going to keep our $$ seperate whilst both of us are still earning and as long as all bills are paid then he can buy what ever he wants with his $$
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