What do you do if you fall out of love with your spouse?

Do you think it's possible to fall back in love again?What do you do if you fall out of love with your spouse?
I just divorce them and get another one...


Life's too short to settle for mediocrity.What do you do if you fall out of love with your spouse?
Marriage takes a lot of work. Everyday is not always going to be a good one. Is your marriage something you want to save? Of course you can fall back in love again, if that is what you want. Try to do some of the activities you used to do when you were in love. It's harder than it sounds with jobs, mortgages, children, etc. You are going to have to make time for one another. Your marriage will have to become your number one priority. If you are willing to go the distance YES you will fall in love with your spouse again.
I think it all depends on whether or not whatever characteristics made you fall out of love is still present in the relationship.


For the love to return there needs to be equal effort made on both sides, towards rekindling the relationship.


Loving and excepting one another for who they are is key for success. Also, forgiving and forgetting. Start fresh, stay positive, and don't look back on any negative things that may have brought you down.
Didnt you love him at one point in your life? then its absolutely possible you'll fall back in love with him. Clear your mind, set your priorities, try to think straight and with logic answer your own concerns, give it time and effort, figure out where you lost track of each other and go back there starting anew, sometimes our daily routines are responsible for that, try doing things together, having long walks and chats, going to the movies, spend some time alone,join a gym etc.


Read The Wedding by Nicholas Sparks, the important thing is that with every step you take you must proceed with strong willingness and assertiveness.





Sometimes we make the wrong choice to begin with and perhaps this forces us to fall out of love, if thats the case, this is your chance to find your real love, someone you wont have second thoughts about, someone who wouldnt allow that happening. You need to make a choice sooner than later.
I think it is. Falling out of love is usually a bi-product of becoming so distracted by life (aka, kids, work, responsibility) that you forget to be a couple first and foremost. It's entirely possible to reconnect. But it has to be something you both want.
No matter what common belief says, there always is a chance. But obviously if one falls out of love is because there's something that is causing a problem. In this case you might wanna get some counseling. I know of many marriages that could have been saved if they would've looked for help. Don't let your marriage go to the trash, save it before it's too late.





That's all i have to say.
Marriage is a marathon, not a sprint. We all have those days (or weeks) when we are not blissfully happy with our spouse. Try to rationally think through the situation. Is he abusive? If so, leave his @$$. If you are just trying to remember why you married him, do just that. Sit down and talk with him about the old days. Reminisce about your first date or wedding day or any special moment you had together. Please don't give up too fast. No one loves everything about their spouse. maybe you just need to focus on the good things for a while.
Yes -- but to do so you have to have an open heart. I did. I feel out of love with my partner for 4 of our six years. In the last year I've found myself falling more in love with him than ever before. However, we talked about it and I took a look at myself and realized it would take me working at it too. For the first time in a long time, we're happier than ever. Good luck!
If you fall out of love with your spouse, The best thing to do is have sex with him at least 5 times a week. That is the only way to fix this
try to remember the reasons about them that you first fell in love with? Do they still exist? If not, tell them you loved those qualities and you want them back.
depends on what you consider ';love'; to be.....why, and if you want to uphold a marriage vow bad enough to work on it. I would get counseling.
i would say just try and do all th things that made u guys fall in love in the beganing


just talk a lot and try to feel love again
Considering there is no such thing as ';falling'; in love (love is an action, not a feeling), then no.
If you find a good answer for this let me know.
Probably not...





Just leave and put yourself out of the misery...
cry, she makes all the money