I wanted to buy my Boyfriend the ';stop walking on eggshells'; book for people who deal with a Spouse with BPD?

I was advised not to and I would like to know what people with experience in this book have to think about it.I wanted to buy my Boyfriend the ';stop walking on eggshells'; book for people who deal with a Spouse with BPD?
I have not read it.


I'm a little confused--does your BF have someone in his family with BPD? Who advised you not to buy it, and did you ask them why?