Thursday, July 29, 2010

What if your spouse bestfriend is turning them against you and causing them to use drugs?

BF is definitely not BF. You didn't say how the BF is turning your spouse against you, but in any case you have to get the BF out of your spouse's life.


Approach the BF and find out what is going on. If he is in fact turning spouse against you and encouraging (can't make him use drugs) him to use drugs, tell the BF to get out of the picture and mean it.


Approach your spouse and tell him you no longer want him to keep company with this BF if what you say is true. If spouse doesn't listen, offer to attend counseling with him. If he will not go, perhaps you have already lost him to the BF and the drug use.


Get some counseling for yourself and try to go on without him.

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