Wednesday, November 23, 2011

If your too poor to get a divorce what do you do with a worthless spouse?

I doubt I could give him away he is too much trouble for anyone and I wouldn't want to torment them by giving him away. So what should I do if I'm too poor to get a divorce? He just spent (my) last two dollars to fix a stupid watch on my birthday. I am so ticked. What do you think I should do with him?If your too poor to get a divorce what do you do with a worthless spouse?
There plenty of options. First, find somewhere else to live, like the other answer said.... family, friend, etc.





The most cost effective and easiest way to divorce is an online document prep service like: http://divorce4her.com/. The divorce has to be uncontested, meaning he agrees with the divorce.





If not, if he disagrees and wants to fight it, then you'll have no choice but to go with a lawyer. You can contact Legal Aid or search for a Pro Bono lawyer to help you.





Good luck,


PamelaIf your too poor to get a divorce what do you do with a worthless spouse?
Girl! You're never too poor to get a divorce. There is actually a book you can buy at your local book store that you can use to perform the divorce yourself. You don't even need a lawyer....it'll take some copying and filling out but you can get it done!





If all your having is money troubles and everything else is good, I recommend getting the book, ';Total Money Makeover'; by Dave Ramsey. He's changed thousands of lives and financial wrecks into lovely marriages with money! It has changed my husbands and my life! We are no longer sick, tired and too poor. Tons of marriages have money problems...if you can change the money situation then your marriage will change for the better too!





Anyway, hope I helped.
Not all states allow do it yourself divorces. Do they? At any rate,,,stop having anything to do with him. Don't give him access to money. Don't provide food or clothing. Especially, don't share your bedroom. Just let him exist. Eat out. Lock your doors. I hope you don't have children. Maybe if you ignore him, he will do the divorcing. If not, save money by not spending on him until you can pay for it yourself..then throw him out. By the way, it is possible to divorce while you are both living in the same home. I hate divorce though, I do wish you didn't have to go there.
Pray for him!


Was the watch yours? I think that he should be commended for trying to be thoughtful in honor of your birthday, if the watch is yours.


Money comes and goes easily enough.


But truly, what would you do if something (God forbid) happened to him? How would you feel? Honestly!


Would you miss him? Would you feel bad for wanting him gone from your life? Is he really and truly all that bad?


There is a cliche'; ';Be careful of what you wish for, it just may come true!';
Sell your computer. Then get rid of your internet. Save, save, save. Have a garage sale. Buy a fund-raising pack of candy bars at GFS and sell them door to door. If you have a motive strong enough you will find a way to save money, move out and pay for that divorce.


If your will is not strong enough then you must not want it bad enough.
If it's that bad, just pack your things and leave. Stay with a friend or family member until you have $299 to fill out the forms and have them checked on legalzoom. You don't need an attorney, and there's no reason to think of nasty things to do to him. Just leave.
When I got divorced I lost everything and I mean everything to get away from this woman. It was hell but it was worth the loss.


You can get all material things later. It takes a lot of work to get who you are back.
He's a person and you can't do anything with him. You can only do something yourself. If you can't get a divorce, you can at least leave him. What he does with himself is up to him. Do what you want.
talk to your local county clerk about getting a fee waiver. that's what i did. Otherwise it would have cost me $230 to file for divorce. and do everything yourself. the people in the courthouse were very helpful to me.
It's called a do it yourself divorce, papers easily acquired on line for your state, at your county court house, or in any office supply place...... assuming this is even serious
Ignore him get a new bank account and put YOUR money in it and don't let him touch it and then when you save up get that divorce!
Just walk away before it gets worse. You'll feel 100% better. You can always file for divorce later.
just walk out, start a new life, and when you have the money, then divorce him
Just leave him. Find a new life for yourself, then when you can afford it, then divorce his worthless butt!
separate indefinatly
get a do it yourself divorce. If he objects go to legal aid.
leave things will only get worst if you're unhappy,if you stay youre just gonna sour youre life i speak from experince.
Act like he doesn't exist and go on with your life. I've been doing that for years; he's a great baby sitter though and it's FREE!

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