My wife all of a sudden says she does not enjoy sex anymore and if were up to her I would be lucky to get it once every 6 months.How many men/women would stay with their spouse if sex was not in the mix?
First of all you need to understand that women go through cycles in their sex lives and in there desire for it! It has to do with shifting hormones and stress. It doesn't last forever. Also a real relationship (no matter what the ppl here say grown ppl know better) is more than physical. It has a part but isn't everything. Ask yourself this If she were in a horrible accident and couldn't perform the act anymore would I love her any less. If the answer is no then you have the answer to this one however if the answer is yes then I would think that there is more of an issue in this relationship than just sex.How many men/women would stay with their spouse if sex was not in the mix?
before you walk away sit her down have a talk tell her you miss making love to her and that you would like to see a professionals opinion to help the two of you work threw this problem. It could be a change in her hormonal level and that can be fixed with a pill for woman that is comparative to viagra. Try romancing her to see if it helps if you don't spice things up it can become a bore no matter how good you are.
I would not Sex is very important factor in a relationship
Someone else asked the same question a few minutes ago. Here is what i replied:
After a few years of marriage, many people take their partners for granted. They no longer bath before going to bed, they don鈥檛 care what they wear in bed, they no longer kiss or hold hands, and they don鈥檛 do nice things for each other. They allow the romance go out of their lives. Do you remember the last time you brought her breakfast in bed, or gave her a passionate kiss? If you have stopped doing all the things that you used to do for her when you just got married, she may no longer find herself attractive especially if she has gained a few pounds over the years. Most women don鈥檛 like to have sex just for the sake of having sex. You can recreate the romance in your life. Woo your wife all over again as if you just met her. Kiss her as often as you can. Write something nice and leave it at the breakfast table. Buy her flowers. Listen to romantic music together. Buy new underwear or new pajamas. Look attractive; let her see that other women desire you because you are desirable. Take her on a romantic vacation.
If you had to start a new relationship you would do everything in your power to make that person feel attractive and you would also try to be attractive for her. Why not do those things for your wife. She may be surprised at first but I am sure that she will welcome the positive attention. There is always the possibility that she may no longer find you attractive because you gained more than 100 pounds. In that case you could start walking every day together to lose the weight, or join weight watchers.
Don't know. Depends on the person.
In this case, go for a SEX THERAPIST.
Because is confusing and it's complicated.
So put your wife's in the hand of the professionals.
tell her the truth that u really miss having sex and she will probably understand
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